Keep Your Cool - Keep Your Kids

Family courts aren’t deciding who’s right or wrong.
They’re deciding where children will be safest, most stable and best supported.
How you communicate under pressure matters more than winning an argument.

Men are wired to protect and fight for their family, particularly when they believe an accusation or legal tactic is unfair. In high-conflict separations, this instinct can be intentionally triggered by actions such as allegations of domestic violence or substance use, leading to men's emotionally charged responses which are then used as evidence of unsuitability in court.


Those aggressive reactions - texts, emails or messages sent in the heat of the moment - are then frequently reframed to suggest poor emotional regulation.These are raised as concerns about parenting capacity and can cost men access to their kids.

Max is a 24/7 AI powered conversational coach - specifically built for the moments that get blokes into trouble. That 9pm angry text or that message you might send before you’ve cooled off.


You can tell Max how you are feeling - frustration, swearing and all - and Max helps you turn it into calm, clear, child-focused wording that won’t escalate things or come back to bite you in court.


Max is a support tool only, not a professional service. Max provides general information and help with communication and decision-making.
Max is NOT a substitute for legal advice, counselling or other professional services.

You can upload messages, emails or documents and ask Max how to respond. Max helps you strip out the heat, tighten the wording and say what you need to say without making things worse or giving the wrong impression.
Max provides practical support only, not legal advice.


You can go back over conversations, tweak replies and save a PDF of what was said and how you responded. PDF's provide you with clear, consistent records -  instead of relying on memory alone.

Max helps prevent reactive responses, keeping communication measured, child-focused and less likely to be used against you.

Keep your cool - Keep your kids.

If you need more parenting education, we have these options available.


The free Co-Parenting Toolkit - 'Co-Parenting For Blokes' Multimedia PDF

A practical, down-to-earth guide for dads navigating

separation, shared parenting and the pressures that often come

with court processes. It focuses on real-world tools, such as, boundaries, communication, sleep, food, stress and keeping kids out of adult conflict.


Circle of Security Online  - One-on-One via Zoom

Our COS Certificate Course features adaptable schedules and timelines which are well-suited for court-mandated parenting requirements.